All of us have been told at one point or another to just be happy. While emotions and life circumstances aren’t that simple, there are many benefits to maintaining a positive mental attitude. (PMA as we’ll call it here.)
PMA in Life & Business Impacts
There are numerous studies that show having a PMA can make you both happier and healthier. In one study, a group focusing on kindness/compassion in meditation led to increased social connection and positive emotions. Furthermore, this group had better control of their heart rate as well! In another study, having a PMA can even expand your lifespan! In 1930, the University of Kentucky reviewed biographies from a group of nuns of the same convent around the ages of 18-32. Sixty years later, the UoK contacted the (surviving) nuns. In these nuns, those who lived the longest, had the positive feelings and thoughts from 1930 regardless of circumstances they were going through!
Outside of just studies, having a PMA serves many other purposes and has several benefits as well. For starters, your PMA will also attract others with the same attitude. We attract people we are similar to and if you are always putting your best foot forward and keep up that PMA, you will eventually fill your circle with people of the same manner. Every business (owner) will come to face its challenges, maintaining a PMA will help you in the face of adversity. If you try to tackle a challenge when you are feeling down, you are more likely to accept defeat or create more problems in the long run. Viewing these hardships with a PMA builds resilience which is essential to the longevity of your business. Additionally, a PMA works to strengthen your decisions and creativity. Finding ways to navigate issues, gaining confidence to make the next steps, feeling comfortable with yourself and in social circles. These are all ways PMA contributes to creating these things more easily. The many advantages of PMA may sound nice, but may be hard to find where to start if it does not come natural to you.
How to maintain your PMA
PMA may not be your brain’s first pathway of thinking, and that’s okay! It takes time to build but you can definitely do it! First off, it’s important to note that positive thought processes do not mean you have to ignore the bad things that happen to you or the unpleasant feelings that arise in life. Positive thinking is created by reforming negative dialogue into your head into positive dialogue instead. It starts with identifying the type of negative thoughts you may be encountering. With the help of the Mayo Clinic, here are the most common types of negative thinking:

If something strikes you as familiar, it’s time to tune into that and decide how to turn that into a positive thought. Some easy examples are “I can’t” into “I can try,” or “this is too hard,” into “Let’s try this in a different way or ask for help.” Retraining your thoughts takes time. But there are also other things you can do to help create a PMA as well.
Another way positivity can be learned is through kindness to yourself and others. Acknowledge the good things about your life and yourself. Talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend. You are deserving of all the same care and love. Doing something good for others can also make you feel better by yourself and creates happiness for everyone involved. Moreover, doing volunteer work or involving yourself with projects that mean a lot to you, can bring you to others who share the same values as you and enhance your life with more purpose. Some other ideas for creating a PMA include: keeping a gratitude journal (keeps track of all positive interactions in a day so you can start to shift your focus to the good in day to day life, practice meditation, having daily affirmations said or written down. Finally, do not underestimate the power of physical health on mental health. It is vital to emotional well-being to get enough sleep, eat well, and have some sort of physical exercise/activity every day. If your physical health is not taken care of, your body is put under stress that will impact your mental state regardless of how you want to feel.
Keep that PMA going forward!
With time, you can keep up a PMA and dominate in your career and in life! And remember, if you are struggling, it’s okay to reach out to others and/or professionals. Use this hotline in case of any emergency. You can do this!






